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10/28/24 - What's Next & Surgery Timing

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I wanted to share a quick update.  First thing is first, the picture is from this weekend, Matt and I had some fun with my new look and went to our friends annual Halloween Party. Don't worry, I stayed outside 😉

Now down to business.  We met with Dr. Yap last week to discuss timing on scans and surgery.  My next chemo appointment is Tuesday, November 5.  TL;DR on chemo treatments: First round was awful and I ended up in the ER for pain. They adjusted my chemo and gave me strong pain medication for the second round and it was so much better.  I feel strong mentally and physically and know I can get through the next 4 rounds (thank you new drugs).  I will also be getting another PET scan and Genetic testing the week of the 11th.

We have a follow up appointment with Dr. Yap on November 12th.  She'll be reviewing the scans to see how my tumors have responded to chemo.  From there she'll make a decision on when surgery will be.  Surgery will be a full hysterectomy with an estimated 6-8 week recovery.

Option 1: I complete all 6 rounds of chemo and we schedule surgery in mid to late January.

Option 2: I complete 4 rounds of chemo and we schedule surgery in mid to late December, then complete the remaining 2 chemotherapy sessions in February or March.

When they remove the tumors they will send them to pathology so they can understand the specific tumor behaviors.  Dr. Yap explained that Ovarian Cancer is not like some other cancers that have the same behavior and markers on every patient. 

Unfortunately it is very specific to the individual and they need the pathology reports as well as genetic testing to confirm the plan for both maintenance (may require additional treatments) and surveillance, which lasts for 5 years.

Thank you again for all of the cards, texts, calls, meals, thoughts and prayers.  We appreciate them more than you will ever know!


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Carol.boucher

Love the picture! So glad the second chemo wasn't as bad. Recovery has to be more successful if not so much pain. Will be praying that the doctors will be able to guide you in making the right decision. Thanks for the update.
  • about 2 months ago

Elle Lamb

Monica--we love you so much and think of you every single day! Thank you so much for taking the time to write this update! you are so strong Mama!
  • about 2 months ago

Skprater

So happy to hear you are feeling well enough to still enjoy some family activities and pain is being managed well. Your strength is admirable. I pray your drs help direct you to make the best decision for the most successful outcome. Keep the faith and your beautiful smile. Much love.
  • about 2 months ago

Margaretalmand

Thank you for the update! You both look great in orange 🍊 your prayer warriors are with you every step of the way! Praying for pain free chemo treatments and that they shrink the tumors. Remember you are strong and fierce!
  • about 2 months ago

Laura Stammer

Love this picture! Beautiful smiles. I am glad Round 2 was so much easier for you! Continued prayers for the chemo and planned surgery. Keep fighting hard Monica, YOU GOT THIS!
  • about 2 months ago

Maria Jiram

The Jirams are praying for you my friend! He will give you wisdom and strength! Keep smiling! Love you!
  • about 2 months ago

Janine Wiskind

I hope you one the costume contest!! You look absolutely beautiful and your bravery and humor is amazing! So glad the 2nd row was less painful!! The fear of having to go into experiencing pain like that cannot be good so I'm glad they figured it out!! Cody and I send positive energy 2 times a day walking past the house 😁. Much love, Janine
  • about 2 months ago

Reed Moll

Y'all won Halloween (again) this year. And you are the most beautiful monk I’ve ever seen. Stay strong my friend.
  • about 2 months ago

Robin Widmann

Thank you for the update. Our prayers are with you every day🙏. You are such an inspiration and handling this like Wonder Woman I know and love.
  • about 2 months ago

tara gallagher

Monica, so happy to hear you made it through your second round of chemo. I’m so glad it wasn’t as horrible as the first round. Love the Halloween pictures you both look awesome! Always thinking of you and sending lots of love hugs and prayers your way.
  • about 2 months ago

Koze88

I love your Halloween costumes- you and Matt are such a great couple. Sounds like you have a great doctor and glad they are working options to get you healthy as fast as they can. Sending you hugs and well wishes. Miss you 🩷
  • about 2 months ago